A broke guy trying to get married to a rich babe is a red flag - Nigerian doctor says (2025)



A broke guy trying to get married to a rich babe is a red flag - Nigerian doctor says (1)

A Nigerian medical doctor, Obianma Onya, has said that a broke man trying to marry a rich woman is a red flag.

She stated this in a Facebook post while reacting to the recent spate of domestic violence in the country, particularly the d3ath of Shimite Bello.

“A man that hits you, obviously has no respect for you. Therefore, you have no business staying with him if you have any shred of self-respect. Run 4-40!,” she wrote.

Do you realize that Bible talks of couples being equally yoked… not just in faith, beliefs & principles but even in finances & family background. The fact that one is a Pastor doesn’t automatically translate to the person following the Biblical tenets.

This has to be put to test as much as possible during courtship. A broke ass guy trying to get married to a “bucksed up” babe is a red flag… judging from the recent spate of homicides from DV. Gold diggers with inferiority complex!\

Avoid broke guys! Run o! E get why. Na de person wey die, lose.

by Linda Ikeji at 22/04/2025 9:10 PM

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Anonymous about 13 hours ago

Not true just overly emotional man is one that can kill not broke guys stop it even rich guy can kill you too eg killaboi

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Anonymous about 10 hours ago

What's the ratio of broke guys seeking out wealthy women to peasant hoes fishing for rich men to dig their families out of generational poverty? Help us out, Doctor.

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Anonymous about 4 hours ago

This post comes from juvenile thinking. You're inexperienced and childish I guess What is the ratio of rich guys to rich girls by the way? It's like 80:20. Most girls are poor and made rich by their husbands when they're married. Don't even argue with your ancestors. For every two women in Lagos worth 5 billion, they're 98 men in Lagos worth over 5 billion. People should be thinking right.

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Anonymous about 3 hours ago

....and she's a medical doctor one day she will treat a malaria patient with HIV medications

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Anonymous about 13 hours ago

But if na woman marry rich man that one na blue flag abi?

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Anonymous about 10 hours ago

Hmmm. A man will take care of his wife

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Anonymous about 13 hours ago

Mugu, what about a broke girl trying to get married to a rich guy? Come to Europe and see man and woman hustling and paying bills. Lazy Nigerians girls with entitlement mentality.

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Anonymous about 13 hours ago

Hhhmmm SM ! as long as you can afford data you have access to unload rubbish even without iota of wisdom. My concern is for gullible people with no sense of discerning who believe to practice what they read on the net.

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Katty about 13 hours ago

Na so my brother

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Mazi Chinex about 13 hours ago

If what this lady is saying true,what do u have to say about the so many marriages that have existed from our parents time till now where the women were richer at the beginning, but supported the husband till he was stable.... Trust me , money is not everything. U sound very young and inexperienced. Domestic violence that occurs in the marriages of the rich has nothing to do with money... Most times it's attitude issues or cases of infidelity mostly.... Mind u too, if u are saying that rich ladies should not marry broke guys, I hope u won't be angry with the person who says that no rich man should marry from the family of a girl that is also broke.... At the end ,it still doesn't make sense. Am not ruling out finance as an issue in domestic violence in homes but am saying that there are other issues involved too, which is not enough reason for any domestic violence.

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Anonymous about 10 hours ago

It's the truth now. I'm a victim. This was someone I've known since childhood and we started dating at some point that I was way better off. I was even instrumental to how he became so rich today. Unfortunately I had challenges. He never offered to support and cared less and even mocking my pains. However I navigated my challenges with full chest and moved abroad and now a citizen. Someone that will shout on my head and cut my calls or never reply messages now wants to be my friend again. He kept asking me over and over again if I'm now a foreign citizen..he shock am! God pass man o. I thought I was supporting him. I didn't know he was a broke demon. I asked him for money in my own downtime, he kept posting me and never helped. I've learnt hard. Thunder fire good and virtuous women. It can never be me again in my life. I didn't say he should thank me or anything but why the antagonistic nature because he has arrived. I'll never try this in my life again. Again the poster is so apt! Run o...for your own good! A broke guy is not only a red flag. Some might be using your aura. Run o! I went from plenty to nothing dating this guy and he started flourishing!! Women have sense! I just thank God for where I am now!

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Anonymous about 8 hours ago

Only in African..But is okay for a broke girl to date high value or rich man? Double standard alert😎

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Anonymous about 8 hours ago

The way every discussion about life by Igbo women is centered on money is very disgusting. Little wonders they have taken over prostitution from Edo people. From Cotonou, Ghana all the way to Turkey, Igbo women have turned to easy virtue. I spit.

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It's now about 6 hours ago

99% of married ladies are broke from day one. If a woman has little cash she starts to broke shame men and call them red flag. Mugu

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Anonymous about 5 hours ago

I dey always wonder why broke bitches hate broke niggas so much but now I don realise say Na the same reason armed robbers dey get angry if dem no see anything steal from you

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Anonymous about 5 hours ago

And a broke girl trying to get married to a rich man is what, Idiot.

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Anonymous about 5 hours ago

I doubt if u r medical doctor. Market woman way no see 4 walls of secondary skul get better reasoning pass u. Mennn u to mugu sis.

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Onye Anambra about 4 hours ago

Let poor people breathe. We rise by lifting others.

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Tobi about 3 hours ago

Your statement is senseless bro, that is why you will in any broken marriage you will alway found an external forces that either trigger the man or the woman until the marriage leads to scatter- This statement is for only the married ones not baby mama or baby father or girl friend and boy friend. You should just make a simple statement ‘ marry your level’ so which one is don’t marry broke guy. Any broke person that is looking for someone to marry regardless of either the girl is rich or super poor, such man is like somebody who wants to commit sucide

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Tobi about 1 hour ago

You should have just say ‘ marry your level or your class’ because. Any role man that is looking for a rich girl may affect the future of the girl and the same thing apply to a girl that wants to marry a rich man. Just go for you level. A broke guy do not need any marriage because the marriage may not even last. Is better you love your self than to put your self in any trouble. The most powerful people in the world are the people who live alone but marriage is good when you are with somebody of your level. Don’t look for poor girl or poor man and don’t look for rich girl or rich man. Just get balanced and marry your level. If you don’t marry your level you may and you may not get problem.

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Tobi about 1 hour ago

Marry your level and if you don’t see your level to marry remain single. I’m talking to both man and woman.

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